- Convince people to link to you by a) making viral content (something crazy that they just HAVE to show someone) b) post content that blatantly helps ME be better c) friendship d) force.
- Post helpful comments on other people’s blogs. Leave behind a link to your site. Everybody wins.
- List your blog on every massive blog list you can find.
- Make a list of your nerds friends. Ask each one for their opinion on your site. They’ll bookmark you in their “Friends” folder, at a minimum, and revisit when they’re lonely. Don’t expect honest criticism, but if you get it cool. When they make a friends or links page for their own nerd website, try to get on it.
- Post post post. Then post again. Expose the &*%$ out of yourself. If you’re honest people will start trusting you and loyalty can’t be bad.
- Have a stack of business cards ready at your next pool party.
Everything worth having takes time and blog hits are no different. So, uh, bookmark this and come back when you’re lonely, or whenever. 
Good luck!
